And not only this, but we also exult in our tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. (Rom 5:3-6)

Let not those who hope in you be put to shame through me, O Lord GOD of hosts; let not those who seek you be brought to dishonor through me, O God of Israel. (Psalm 69:6)



Sunday, August 5, 2012

Lists, Books, and Reccomended Reading


I love lists.  Calendars, electronic checkbooks, scraps of paper, and legal pads all bring me great organizational joy.  My accounting background still fondly remembers the moment I first laid eyes on Lotus 123.  My heart raced to exclaim that computers had been created for just such a purpose.  It all started early in life for me.  Going to the Danville public library to visit my grandmother found my childhood fascinated with the card catalog system for tracking those beautiful columns and rows of books.  It essentially combined my love for reading with my bent towards organization.  Today, I relish in the use of Evernote and Dropbox on my iPod.

 Just the other night in a deacons meeting my heart quickened.  One of the brothers shared how after years of only reading his Bible and books for work he was taking it upon himself to begin reading, in which he might grow further in Christ.  Restraining myself from actually fist pumping in the air, I silently praised God for this breakthrough.  You see, I am a firm, ardent, and staunch believer that we should never stop learning.  We need to be discerning Bereans, who test and take to heart everything as to the glory of God.  Since we are to be worshippers in spirit and in truth the discipline of study is as imperative as rungs and sides of a ladder to reach greater heights in learning and application.  We learn, we apply, then we learn some more. 

Learning is a means of sanctification.  It is critical to discipleship.

 Therefore, today I would hope to encourage you all to learn.  Again, learning is a means of sanctification.  Below you will find my current recommended reading list, under several categories.  Some books might as well be included in several groupings.  However, my purpose here is to give each category of life its own set of tomes for indulgence.  None are listed in order of preference or practicality, some have a few comments.  All are enthusiastically suggested.  I would love to get your feedback and hear of books you love.  Please write to me at perseveringpastor@gmail.com.  Further lists to soon follow.



Ten Books I Want My Church Members to Read

·         The Bible- I don’t want to make the Bible a side suggestion.  I want it to be the imperative.  There is no substitute here, and it should be devoured more than bread or water.

·         Prayer- Ole Hallesby  Simply one of the only books on prayer you will ever need.

·         The Screwtape Letters- C S Lewis  This one challenges us to think, like everything CS ever wrote.

·         The Atonement- Leon Morris  This book will open your eyes to the wonder of the cross.

·         The Cost of Discipleship- Dietrich Bonhoeffer. This book should be read annually as it wards against mediocrity.

·         Maximum Impact- Wayne Mack  If we are to be the church, then we must know how to represent Christ and His message through love.

·         Spiritual Depression- Martyn Lloyd Jones.  This book speaks to the depths of the soul in its desires and hope.

·         Desiring God- John Piper  This modern classic reforms our thinking to "glorify God and enjoy HIm forever."

·         Instruments in the Redeemers Hands- Paul Trip  If you are a disciple, you will be dealing with people.  This tome has helped me to enjoy the trials of ministry.

·         Christless Christianity- Michael Horton  In a kaleidoscope world of “Christian” viewpoints, this book brings clarity to what we ought to see.


Ten Books for Apologetics

·         Who Made God? Ravi Zacharias & Norman Geisler

·         The Testimony of the Evangelists Simon Greenleaf

·         Between Heaven and Hell Peter Kreeft

·         The Defense Never Rests Craig Parton

·         I Don’t Have Enough Faith to be an Atheist Norman Geisler & Frank Turek

·         Why I am a Christian  John Stott

·         Tactics Gregory Koukl

·         Why Good Arguments Often Fail James Sire

·         Christianity and Liberalism J Greshem Machen

·         Mere Christianity C S Lewis



Ten Books for Youth to Read

·         Don’t Waste Your Life- John Piper

·         Do Hard Things- Alex and Brett Harris

·         Radical- David Platt

·         Pilgrim’s Progress- John Bunyan

·         God’s Passion for His Glory- John Piper

·         Respectable Sins- Jerry Bridges

·         Basic Christianity- John Stott

·         Worldliness- C J Mahaney

·         Preparing for Marriage- Wayne Mack.  Many books on dating deal mainly with sex.  I ask, should not a book on dating delve into the natural result of such a relationship.  Let us help youth to understand what God requires of a marriage relationship before they initiate the giving away their affections.



10 Books for the Weary

·         When I don’t Desire God- John Piper

·         The Christian Life- Ole Hallesby

·         Life Together- Dietrich Bonhoeffer

·         Beside Still Waters- Charles Spurgeon

·         Future Grace- John Piper

·         Revival- Martyn Lloyd Jones

·         How Long Oh Lord- D A Carson

·         Surprised by Suffering R C Sproul

·         Revival Richard Owen Roberts

·         Out of the Depths Martyn Lloyd Jones



Twelve Books for Leadership

·         The Reformed Pastor- Richard Baxter

·         Brother’s We are Not Professionals- John Piper

·         Lectures to My Students- Charles Spurgeon

·         Preaching and Preachers Martyn Lloyd Jones

·         Competent to Council- Jay Adams

·         Counseling- John Macarthur

·         How to Say it- Rosalie Maggio

·         The Art of the Personal Letter-Margaret Shepherd

·         Manners- Emily Post

·         Speaking the Truth in Love- David Powlison

·         The Deliberate Church- Mark Dever

·         Warnings to the Churches- J C Ryle

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Counseling Ministers Who are Ready to Quit Part 5

Fellow Ministers,
If the saints are called to persevere, how much more the sheperds of the sheep?  Ministry is one of the most soul wrenching vocations that a person can faithfully engage in. For the sake of editing, I aam presenting in this blog over the next several days a portion of a paper I have written for my course of training and education in Biblical Counseling.  It is my hope that if you are strugling, your reading of the words within would stir your heart to press on.  Should you desire to work through the homework that I have created to go along with this paper, you may email me at  perseveringpastor@gmail.com


Biblical Principles for Hope Not to Quit


The Bible contains many examples of people despairing, many written by suffering saints.  One can think of Isaiah and his ministry’s predestined resistance, Elisha was despondent immediately after a great victory on Mount Carmel at the threat of Jezebel, and others such as Jeremiah and Ezekiel faced persecution for their life of ministry.

In order to counsel a pastor with the particular problem of wanting to leave the ministry a few considerations need to be taken into account.  Most pastors may be spiritually walking from sermon to sermon, just getting by.  One condition of their life may be that they are not taking the truth of Scripture to heart and could be supporting their actions with theological dodges of accountability.  This situation would lead to a hardening of the heart.  Such a lifestyle tends to encourage failure in other areas of life.  One needs to consider that the effects of this problem are carried over into the marriage and home life. 

In counseling someone with this particular set of circumstances and focus, it will be necessary to build hope through the Scriptures in personal application.  As the minister preaches while admittedly struggling to hold on, he may be making an assumption that the gospel is for others but is presently not bearing grace on his own life.  Therefore, a key principal to follow is helping, by the Holy Spirit, the minister regain hope in the gospel itself.  This is critical in helping him move from a self-centered focus to a God glorifying one.  As this happens, the minister sees his values fall back in line with the will of God.

Another principal is that of looking to the promises of God rather than the present circumstance.  This look toward future grace is to help the Christian rely upon God as the author of success rather than the merits of the self.  Many ministers call their ministries failures all based upon self-imposed standards of success.  It is imperative that counselors give them a God-centered view of shepherding and success.

As with any counseling situation, basic principles are absolutely necessary.  These include the roles of counselor and counselee, the authority of the Holy Spirit and the gospel, and the needs of hope and change of the heart.  Homework for the minister is somewhat difficult.  Since most ministers have a deep intellect and memory of Scripture, they are able to complete most assignments quickly.  There is a danger here, that they may complete the work without any true meditation or application. Because the minister is constantly faced with the truth of Scripture and has not responded accordingly, their heart may be quite hardened against it. Thus, a key principle for the counselor is to take the minister deep into the truths of the Word, and to interrogate the counselee redemptively in his responses.  Counselors should be well prepared to take longer sessions with a minister than most others for this reason.

Along these lines, a minister needs to hold to a higher standard of commitment in counseling.  A principle parameter of counseling this person also incorporates the goal that the sanctification process becomes a personal joy and support to the counselee.  The counselor helps the counselee desire the discipleship process that God is taking them through rather than rebuff it. A counselor wants to walk with a minister long enough to see him correctly handle to daily trials of ministry in biblical ways. 

With the particular problem of being a minister who knows Scripture well and yet is not thriving in its truth, I would also admonish him with the principle of dealing with scriptural responsibilities as outlined in the call to become an elder.  Before going any further with a decision to end their ministry, the personal cost before God, the church, and his family ought to be lined out for them. It may be best to have the minister evaluate this in a homework assignment.

In the end, the basic principal of joy in service to Christ must be reestablished.  The minister needs to learn to focus not on circumstances but the Savior.  He needs to learn to deal with his sinful habits of the heart and strive for fruits of the spirit, all while making the gospel more than just a religious mantra but a life-changing love for God that excludes all other dependencies.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Counseling Ministers Who are Ready to Quit Part 4

Fellow Ministers,
If the saints are called to persevere, how much more the sheperds of the sheep?  Ministry is one of the most soul wrenching vocations that a person can faithfully engage in. For the sake of editing, I aam presenting in this blog over the next several days a portion of a paper I have written for my course of training and education in Biblical Counseling.  It is my hope that if you are strugling, your reading of the words within would stir your heart to press on.  Should you desire to work through the homework that I have created to go along with this paper, you may email me at  perseveringpastor@gmail.com


Persevering Hope in Ministry


The aforementioned symptoms of the heart; burnout, depression, pride, guilt, motivation, self-esteem, stress, and anger are all clear areas in need of putting off the ways of the flesh.  Biblical counselors can give the minister contemplating the end of their ministry great hope in the multitude of encouragements from scripture.  Thus, to walk redemptively with this person by helping to recognize their condition biblically and to assist through wise counsel to put off pride and put on humility before God, hope can be restored.  Henceforth, a wise counselor will not only correct sin in a minister’s life, but will also equip them with reasons to press on.

Perseverance in ministry is one doctrine that all ministers need to spend a great deal of time understanding if they are to maintain a zeal for their calling.  The Bible proclaims that ministers have a sure reward (Luke 12:37, 12:48; Matt 25:14-46).  Often pastors encourage the church body with the doctrine of perseverance of the saints as it relates to eternal security.  However, there is much to be said for that same security working in the present as the saints abide in Christ to do His will.  When ministers are challenged to quit, the Bible speaks to persevere.  Much of the New Testament was written for the saints to persevere.  A close inspection of the Pauline letters will find direct encouragement for ministers specifically to not give up (1 Tim; 2 Tim; Heb). Thus in counseling ministers, the counselor must not only point out the sins of quitting but also the great provision and joy in carrying on.  The counselor would be well served to have a strong working knowledge of the multitudes of saints in history that persevered despite adverse circumstances.  Men such as John Bunyan, David Brainard, and Martin Luther are just a few of the many who have endured hardships for the sake of the gospel.  Their stories of physical ailments, poverty, imprisonment, and threat of physical harm and death are quite relevant to what ministers face today.

Several verses of Scripture are written to give hope in times of burnout, stress, depression, guilt, and self-esteem.  God by His grace has already provided the church with these Scriptures as a means to combatting the trials of ministry.

First Timothy 4:16 is written, “Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.”  This is a pastoral warning for Timothy and for all Christians not to allow themselves to become distracted by busywork, a leading factor in burnout.  Too often the ministry of the pastorate takes on many good projects and can become sidetracked from its true purpose. Again, a fear of man may promote a pastor to constantly please people. This wears him out spiritually.  God illustrates the imperative that ministers stay at the task of abiding in what the Scripture teaches.  The promise contained in this wisdom is that by doing so the ministers are actually ‘saving yourself and your hearers.”  Thus a major factor in ministry is to first and foremost remain grounded in the truth of Scripture.  As it says in John 15:4, the abiding in Christ by the word of God is the Father’s means of sustaining the minister through the needs of ministry.  Ministers are a conduit through which God dispenses His revelation.  The minister who pours out becomes empty.   They need constant filling by the Holy Spirit.  Pastors who neglect prayer and personal devotions are more likely to contemplate leaving.  The discouraged pastor needs prayer and scriptural truth as a famished man needs food and water. It is through the Word of God and the work of the Holy Spirit that the minister is restored to joyfully serving, not by the counselor.

The Bible directly addresses the burden of work that ministers carry.  Many take on too much work and then despair.  In fact, the problem seems to be articulated by the scriptural statement of first Timothy 4:16, in which the shepherd should first abide in the teaching of the Word of God and let that determine what is to be taken on as ministry.  When the pressures of the ministerial position do strike, one can find solstice: “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it” (1 Cor 10:13).  Thus, the pastor needs to order his life to the plans of God rather than a self-imposed “vision.”  The minister needs to realize that God only puts on him a specific set of demands.  It is the abiding in the Word and in prayer that helps the minister determine what is to be done and what is to be excluded.  When seasons come that require much of the minister, they can be assured that God also provides much for the day at hand.  This principle is illustrated in the story of God providing manna and quail to those who wandered the wilderness in the exodus from Egypt.

Paul counseled Timothy by being an example to him: “Therefore I endure everything for the sake of the elect, that they also may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory” (2 Tim 2:10). Just as the book of Hebrews illustrates the roll call of faith, Christians can know that there is good reason to persevere.  The goal is not to build one’s own kingdom or ministry, but to proclaim the very Kingdom of God.  When a child of God endures, it is often for the strengthening for others.  This is the idea behind building each other up in love.  A shepherd who loves his flock is willing to take on hardship that they might not have to, and that they may have a personal example of someone who is denying self, taking up the cross, and following Jesus.  If a minister were to choose to fall away, how much easier would it be for others to excuse themselves in their own shortcomings?  Ministers need to realize the precarious position they are called to.  Many find strength in the perseverance of the pastor.  The endurance of the hardships of ministry shows how infinitely valuable the relationship of man to God is through the cross.  It illustrates that the kingdom of God truly is a pearl of great price.

Ministers can find biblical hope even though trials will come, and should be expected, yet they are a means of God’s blessing.  Early on in His ministry, Jesus preached to this truth:

Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.  (Matt 5:10-12) 

The minister who is personally offended, maligned, and wronged can know that they are in good company.  This treatment can actually be a sign of participation in the true Kingdom.

Paul writes in Romans,

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? (Rom 8:28-31) 

Romans 8:28-31 is one of the single most quoted verses in times of trouble for the sheep and needs to be personally applied and taken to heart by the destitute minister.  It would behoove the minister to walk step by step through the promises in this passage of assurance.  When the minister is looking at his problems from inside the storm, the Bible shows the truth of the situation.  May those who are under the call of God learn to count it all joy, that suffering is actually making them more like Jesus.  In counseling the minister, help him to regain a hope that what is going on is actually meant for good.  Help him embrace the truth that God is demonstrating love through this experience.

In trials and desperation, a minster will want to know “what to do?”  The book of James begins with great council on how to actively wait upon God in the variety of circumstances that befall those who are called to shepherd: 

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. (Jas 1:2-5)

As in Romans 8, trials are for refinement and are meant for betterment.  The minister needs to be given hope that they can still seek God for wisdom to handle the situations at hand.  However, often the advice to the minister needs to hear is to be steadfast.  Quitting the ministry is the anti-resolve to persevere.  Thus, the minister who feels ill-equipped needs a renewal of understanding the magnitude and sufficiency of God for their life.  Problems are bound to come, but through the experiences of ministry, the counselee can have hope to mature and meet the future with different results.  The equipping of the minister to renew the way the mind looks at ministry from a biblical perspective, rather than a world imposed mold, can result in exponential blessings.  As many ministers feel lonely and isolated, a minister who has renewed joy in the Lord can be a vital asset to those in ministry who are secretly struggling.  Part of the hope in the counseling process is to help the minister see how he can benefit others. Once renewed, the shepherd of one flock is able to testify to other shepherds of how God has worked faithfully even when they have not been so faithful. 

One of the most encouraging books of the Bible for a despairing minister is the book of Philippians.  Authored by Paul, the letter is written to encourage the church at Philippi.  What makes it remarkable is how joyful he is in ministry, even though writing from prison.  In absolutely deplorable conditions, and with little reason to be encouraged, Paul is overwhelmingly at peace.  The application for every minister ought to be the same.  No matter what the circumstances, Christ is the source of peace and joy. As a matter of fact, his trials produced a God-glorifying resolve that all can have.  Without these trials, he may never have grown to the maturity that had such joy.  His suffering was of great benefit to the church.  Counselors need to help the counselee realize the eternal benefits of Paul’s temporary inconveniences.

The letter outlines his experiences, hardships, and God’s presence.  Philippians is also famous for its admonitions “to live is Christ and to die is gain” (Phil 1:21), “have this mind among yourselves” (Phil 2:5), “whatever gain I had, I counted as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord” (Phil 3:7), and “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me” (Phil 4:13).  The entire book is rife with reasons to not give up. Because of this, it is the central text for this papers’ compendium homework exercise assignment.

The ministry of Paul gives one other example that must never be forgotten.  His ministry experience is known to have a “thorn in the flesh” situation.  In 2 Corinthians 12, the church reads of how he was given a “messenger of Satan” to keep him from boasting.  There is no need not know what his problem was exactly[bjf1] , just as all ministers may face problems that also do not go away..[1]  The anonymity of the thorn in the flesh lends an opportunity to say that whatever the problem one is faced with, God is in control.  What a person can know is that it was to remain and be dealt with continually, much as the problems faced in ministry today.  Hope was given, however, in the promise of God: “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”  And Paul responds, “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Cor 12:9-10).  As counsel is made unto the despondent minister, encourage them that the great hardship they face may very well be the key to unlocking the effectiveness of the ministry at hand.



[1]Some have speculated this to be either a physical ailment, an opposition to the Gospel, and others allude it may be a deacon of their own.


 [bjf1]what?